They say create a niche for yourself!
They say don’t follow the crowd!
They say make your own identity!
They say have an exceptional life!
They say make uncommon choices!
They say set a good example!
However be prepared !!!
Because those “they” will bring you down.you will get negative remarks.You will be laughed at…
It’s like the 80/20 rule,which when applied to money,means that 20 percent of people have 80 percent of money and 80 percent of people have 20 percent of money.
Another meaning of 80/20 rule is that 80 percent of your outcomes come from 20 percent of your inputs.You need to find your own path and focus on it.Focus on what you do best,which is the 20 percent,not the 80 percent.
Let the crowd follow you instead of you following the crowd.If you want to be a leader,start leading now.You are the director of your movie of your life.You need to be yourself.
Yoy need to distinguish yourself from others.You need to be different.
Be unique.Be innovative and most imporatant Be yourself.
You want to be in control fo your life,path and freedom.So take risks.
The one’s from the crowd never get to the top,because they are busy fighting with each other.
It’s much more beautiful and spacious at the top.Allow life to polish you like a diamond.
It is impossible not to be yourself.It is impossible not to give expression to your real nature.
To get the inner peace,one has to do it.
My take on”They”:
I spend all of my energy in pursuing my passions and conquering my shortcomings. I am not hassled by anyone’s opinion of me. I do not spend a single moment lending unasked for advice. It does not concern me what anyone is doing in their professional or personal life.
I mind my own business, in the real sense of that phrase.
I believe in setting good intentions out there and following them up with constructive actions,
without any expectations. I know that was a mouthful, but it is my truth.
I am thankful for everything I have. And everything I don’t have. I have come to a realization that things come to me when I am ready for them, and if they never do, then they were never right for me in the first place. I am thankful for the peace of mind,a content heart, and a stable life. I am also thankful for persons,books and movies for that’s what lifts me, when I am down!
There is a famous poem by Virginia Satir called,”My declaration of Self-Esteem”
Where she says,
“In all the world,there is no one else exactly like me.Everything that comes out of me is authentically me,
because I alone chase it-I own everything about me.My body,my feelings,my mouth,my voice,
all my actions,whether they be to others or to myself.I own my fantasies,my dreams,my hopes ,my fears.”
Hi! I am Anushree Dash…
1 Part Entrepreneur
2 Parts Writer
3 Parts Social reformer
4 Parts explorer
5 Parts photographer, Too many Parts.
A free-spirited,non-conformist,,impenitent,independent,adventurous,boho soul and an admirer of life. Loves my Indian roots, Culture, Aesthetic Living, Saree, Poetry …