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Expectations or Insecurity !


Conflicting philosophies :


  • When choosing a woman who works, you have to accept that she can’t handle the house.
  • If you have chosen a housewife who can take care of you and fully manage your household, you have to accept that she is not earning money.
  • If you choose an obedient woman, you must accept that she depends on you and you must ensure her life.
  • If you decide to be with a strong woman, you have to accept that she is tough and she has her own opinion.
  • If you choose a beautiful woman, then you will have to accept big expenses.
  • If you decide to be with a successful woman, you must understand that she has character and has her own goals and ambitions.


We have flaws. We have shortcomings. But still we’re fighting. We’re still speaking.
We’re choosing to see the strength in the women standing beside us, behind us, in front of us.
We’re choosing to give those positive qualities precedence. We’re choosing not to be defeated.


There are no such things as perfect. Everyone has their own riddle, which makes us unique.

In the time and era when we are celebrating feminism why are people still tearing women down?

Why there are codes of ‘feminine’ behavior?


False expectations!



Or Something else!

They Call Me Nari

Hi! I am Anushree Dash… Freethinker
1 Part Entrepreneur
2 Parts Writer
3 Parts Social reformer
4 Parts explorer
5 Parts photographer, Too many Parts. A free-spirited,non-conformist,,impenitent,independent,adventurous,boho soul and an admirer of life. Loves my Indian roots, Culture, Aesthetic Living, Saree, Poetry …


  • January 9, 2022 at 5:13 am
    Jasaswini Padhy

    Well said words love it . In some families daughter and daughter in law equally treated , the rules of family and practice equally applicable for man n women . But now i m seeing that they have separate rules for man and woman of the family. And in-laws apply the cultural Barrios to turture the daughter in law . Why so ?
    Why in-laws specialy nanad s always missguided the family

    • January 9, 2022 at 5:21 am

      I would say it’s insecurities of mother-in-law to loose the best woman position in her son’s life and the same is applicable for sister-in-law, because she considers a newly wedded as a competition in the race.

      In the process, a daughter-in-law always remain a outsider


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