Being Alone,Being lonely …
A thin line of difference between ‘being alone’ and ‘being lonely’.Well my vocabulary had taught me the difference between the two and I feel quite strange the way people perceive it.
I am a person who is born positive.I take the pride in taking out positives from the most negative situations.As a social animal we humans try a lot to be in company of our near and dears and typically husband/wife,boyfriend/girlfriend,parents,relatives,friends fall into this category.But in this show off world,at times we feel lonely even in this company.Sometimes being surrounded by the wrong people is the loneliest thing in the world.
Many a times we need to fake our happiness to hide the failure of our relationships.Even in today’s time and era people question the credibility of the person who is walking alone in his life.The norm of society is quite rigid to accept unmarried,separated, single people in the mainstream.The best company these people can get is of themselves.
Here the definition of ‘Alone ‘ and ‘Lonely’ looses it’s identity.
Being lonely is different but being alone is powerful.
Don’t be afraid to be outnumbered.
I no longer fear staying all by myself. Being by myself. I dont mean to say that I am anti social or I dislike people,
I am pretty much a people’s person, in fact I love talking to strangers more. I am quite a conversationalist,I can easily talk with cabbies and delivery guys and I find it better. I sometimes like conversations that does not make sense, that does not benefit me anyway,like just knowing lives or someones job. Sometimes Isolation is important so you could hear yourself clearer and better.
I have been stereotyped,I have been labelled as both introvert and extrovert.To me,you can be both.That choice of yours depends largely on the situation,your surrounding and people.
Being alone has a power that very few people can handle.
Sun is alone,and he is still shining,Isn’t it ???
Hi! I am Anushree Dash…
1 Part Entrepreneur
2 Parts Blogger
3 Parts photographer
4 Parts explorer, Too many Parts.
A free-spirited,non-conformist,independent,adventurous,boho soul and an admirer of life.Loves my Indian roots, Culture, Aesthetic Living, Saree, Poetry …